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July 17 2014
Guests: Gabriella van Rij

Gabriella van Rij is a nationally recognized anti-bully activist.

07-17-2014 07:06:52
Tricia Arrington Griffith

hello

07-17-2014 07:08:05
David Bailey

hi 🙂

07-17-2014 07:24:40
Frank Stumpanatra

Hola Everyone!

07-17-2014 07:25:30
David Bailey

howdy

07-17-2014 07:32:23
Frank Stumpanatra

Hi Nikki!

07-17-2014 07:32:26
NikkiSanDiego

Evening, All!
Hiya Frank, David.

07-17-2014 07:33:03
Frank Stumpanatra

How’s the weather down there?

07-17-2014 07:33:08
NikkiSanDiego

Nice to see you all again.

07-17-2014 07:33:15
Frank Stumpanatra

Likewise.

07-17-2014 07:33:22
NikkiSanDiego

Gorgeous! But, I don’t want to brag…

07-17-2014 07:33:22
David Bailey

hi Nikki

07-17-2014 07:33:29
NikkiSanDiego

Hiya DB
Where are you Frank? David is TX from what I recall, yeah?

07-17-2014 07:34:16
Frank Stumpanatra

Hi Trish!

07-17-2014 07:34:18
Tricia Arrington Griffith

hey everyone. thanks for joining us.

07-17-2014 07:34:27
NikkiSanDiego

Hiya Tricia

07-17-2014 07:34:44
Frank Stumpanatra

Hey, pretty nice up here too, Nikki.

07-17-2014 07:35:00
NikkiSanDiego

🙂

07-17-2014 07:35:25
Frank Stumpanatra

Been in the mid 90’s the past few days, finally only 88 today. Very nice, really.

07-17-2014 07:36:02
NikkiSanDiego

Very good. I know it’s roasting in some places back east.
And, WA fires… yikes!

07-17-2014 07:36:50
Frank Stumpanatra

Yes, we’ve had our share in Oregon this season. It’s likely to be a bad fire season.

07-17-2014 07:37:12
NikkiSanDiego

Oh, I may be moving to Portland soon. 🙂 We’ll see.
Either that or Dallas/Austin… decisions, decisions.
Had no idea it got that hot in OR, Frank

07-17-2014 07:37:52
David Bailey

san antonio

07-17-2014 07:38:06
NikkiSanDiego

Lovely city, David

07-17-2014 07:38:08
Frank Stumpanatra

LOL, I’ll stay in Eugene. Oh yes, gets hotter than that in southern Oregon, East — there’s a desert there.

07-17-2014 07:38:58
NikkiSanDiego

I see. I lived in Seattle for 1-yr & it was glorious. Springs & summers are the best in the PNW

07-17-2014 07:39:09
Frank Stumpanatra

Yes, San Antonio is very pretty.

07-17-2014 07:39:28
David Bailey

too hot

07-17-2014 07:40:13
NikkiSanDiego

Yes, when you smell roasted chicken whilst walking down the street… then realize it’s YOU… it’s too hot!

07-17-2014 07:40:21
David Bailey

lol

07-17-2014 07:40:35
Frank Stumpanatra

Oh, my Texas time was spent in Wichita Falls. You had to watch where you stepped in the summer with your bare feet for fear of tarring them.

07-17-2014 07:40:49
NikkiSanDiego

Yikes!
Well, I’m job hunting, so hear Austin/Dallas is where I should be

07-17-2014 07:41:48
Frank Stumpanatra

Good Luck!

07-17-2014 07:41:55
NikkiSanDiego

TY!

07-17-2014 07:42:22
David Bailey

Austin is loaded with tech jobs right now

07-17-2014 07:42:48
NikkiSanDiego

Yes. That could be good for me, TY
Do you like Austin vs Dallas, David?

07-17-2014 07:43:10
David Bailey

what do you do?
dont care for dallas

07-17-2014 07:43:42
NikkiSanDiego

Just Admin Asst now, DB, but I’ll be getting back into computers with some training within 6-mos. My skills are rusty.
An Austinite told me Dallas was a vast wasteland of cement.. haha

07-17-2014 07:44:27
Frank Stumpanatra

Well, everyone needs AAs no matter where you go.

07-17-2014 07:44:29
NikkiSanDiego

I’ve heard Portland might be a good place, as well… job wise
Thx Frank. Please tell all employers! Haha

07-17-2014 07:44:49
Frank Stumpanatra

I’m sure that’s true, it’s the best place to get jobs in Oregon, at least.

07-17-2014 07:44:56
NikkiSanDiego

Yes

07-17-2014 07:45:42
David Bailey

brb

07-17-2014 07:46:13
NikkiSanDiego

Me, too… brb… tea time ’round these parts

07-17-2014 07:48:52
Frank Stumpanatra

wb Trish!\

07-17-2014 07:54:34
David Bailey

🙂

07-17-2014 07:55:17
NikkiSanDiego

🙂

07-17-2014 07:55:17
Tricia Arrington Griffith

thank you. I am scrambling. losing my mind. the usual how are you?

07-17-2014 07:57:53
Frank Stumpanatra

Great, how are you?
Oh, that’s right, never mind, you’ve just said.

07-17-2014 08:01:18
Tricia Arrington Griffith

I’m here

07-17-2014 08:01:26
TransAmnesia

Hey guys

07-17-2014 08:01:37
NikkiSanDiego

Hello Trans, Tricia

07-17-2014 08:01:58
Tricia Arrington Griffith

hey Nicki hey trans how are you guys

07-17-2014 08:02:14
David Bailey

Welcome 🙂

07-17-2014 08:04:33
Tricia Arrington Griffith

can you please post the link to the live show a lot tonight.?

07-17-2014 08:04:58
Frank Stumpanatra

Sure! http://www.iheart.com/live/Extreme-Talk-6302/
Listen live right now! http://www.iheart.com/live/Extreme-Talk-6302/

07-17-2014 08:05:30
David Bailey

will do

07-17-2014 08:05:31
Tricia Arrington Griffith

that is the link to live show everyone. Click on it to hear tje show

07-17-2014 08:07:35
David Bailey

You may now listen live at http://www.iheart.com/live/Extreme-Talk-6302/

07-17-2014 08:09:15
TransAmnesia

Russians giving the damn Rebels access to dangerous weaponry .. GENIUS

07-17-2014 08:09:59
Frank Stumpanatra

Hiya MrsG!

07-17-2014 08:15:07
David Bailey

not a real good connection
You may now listen live at http://www.iheart.com/live/Extreme-Talk-6302/

07-17-2014 08:17:30
TransAmnesia

Hey FRANK!! I had to log in via Twitter so I’m using my troll name LOL!

07-17-2014 08:17:47
Frank Stumpanatra

LOL

07-17-2014 08:17:56
TransAmnesia

Soooo evil!!!! ROFL
Bullying and projection .. a pet topic of mine at the moment.

07-17-2014 08:18:46
Frank Stumpanatra

LOL, oh, I hope not!

07-17-2014 08:19:16
TransAmnesia

oh not in an evil way .. i mean bullies project their own inadequacy onto victims, and punish them for what they hate in themselves << theory

07-17-2014 08:19:46
David Bailey

sounds like a good theory to me

07-17-2014 08:20:18
Frank Stumpanatra

Oh, yes, that’s certainly consistent.

07-17-2014 08:20:52
David Bailey

Things are different I think today from when I was a kid.

07-17-2014 08:21:58
TransAmnesia

truth is bullies exist in adult world too

07-17-2014 08:21:58
Frank Stumpanatra

LOL I’m pretty sure they are from my perspective.

07-17-2014 08:22:08
David Bailey

true
I think bullying is reaching new levels.
social media and tech
in my day there were always a handful that took pleasure in after school fights with the smallest kid in the grade

07-17-2014 08:24:13
Frank Stumpanatra

Oh, for sure, technology has changed everything for kids today.

07-17-2014 08:24:56
David Bailey

You may now listen live at http://www.iheart.com/live/Extreme-Talk-6302/

07-17-2014 08:25:59
TransAmnesia

I think we see on social media what was simply said behind a persons back in the past .. yes this means more people see the shame being forced upon the victim which makes the individual is publicly humiliated
*means

07-17-2014 08:26:42
Frank Stumpanatra

sure, things are much more instantaneous all around.

07-17-2014 08:31:03
David Bailey

You may now listen live at http://www.iheart.com/live/Extreme-Talk-6302/

07-17-2014 08:32:57
NikkiSanDiego

You’re all spot on. And, it’s the anonymity that makes it far easier to do today. You’re right Trans, in it being an adult problem, too. What happened to consideration & kindness? It’s so much more joyful & easy a day with those involved.

07-17-2014 08:33:52
Tricia Arrington Griffith

hi can you please post the link to the live show again? thank you. I really appreciate you all

07-17-2014 08:33:58
David Bailey

You may now listen live at http://www.iheart.com/live/Extreme-Talk-6302/

07-17-2014 08:34:17
Frank Stumpanatra

Well, kind of preaching to the choir when you’re dealing with sociopathic personalities, or at least sadistic, folks who don’t have empathy and therefore don’t care about others.

07-17-2014 08:34:21
TransAmnesia

people who bully feel inadequate .. they deflect their own shame onto others they see as more shameful or who they think they can make appear more shameful so people don’t look to closely at THEM and see their sh*t IMO
the people who are around them who are afraid of becoming targets themselves join in or simply say nothing

07-17-2014 08:35:24
NikkiSanDiego

I agree. They’re also scary… sometimes come in larger packages. I don’t like seeing larger kids pick on the small ones, like David was saying. It’s cowardly.
Yes, Frank. Agree.

07-17-2014 08:35:54
TransAmnesia

it’s always cowardly imo

07-17-2014 08:35:59
David Bailey

When I was a kid I was smaller than the smallest girl

07-17-2014 08:36:01
Frank Stumpanatra

Certainly that’s true, at the heart of most narcissitic personalites is an empty core which does not have self worth. So the projection is behavior intended to protect any confrontation with the real self.

07-17-2014 08:36:06
David Bailey

quite an experience

07-17-2014 08:36:40
TransAmnesia

i would have been shorter david LOL

07-17-2014 08:36:40
NikkiSanDiego

Yes, some kids have it rough, DB

07-17-2014 08:36:47
TransAmnesia

I’m still not even 5′ tall 😀

07-17-2014 08:37:07
David Bailey

Once i had heart surgery I grew a bit

07-17-2014 08:37:10
Crazy!

Hi

07-17-2014 08:37:15
TransAmnesia

Hey!

07-17-2014 08:37:16
David Bailey

You may now listen live at http://www.iheart.com/live/Extreme-Talk-6302/
hi crazy

07-17-2014 08:37:34
NikkiSanDiego

Oh… Trans. That’s cute. My mum & sisters are 5’… they’re all mini-mums!
Hi Crazy
Really, David?

07-17-2014 08:38:13
David Bailey

yeah, I was sick

07-17-2014 08:38:25
Frank Stumpanatra

Oh, sorry to hear that.

07-17-2014 08:38:30
NikkiSanDiego

Oh, I see… good strong heart today, I hope?!!

07-17-2014 08:38:52
David Bailey

It was made strong 42 years ago, not too good now

07-17-2014 08:39:13
NikkiSanDiego

Ohh, sorry

07-17-2014 08:39:31
David Bailey

it is what it is enjoying each day

07-17-2014 08:39:56
Frank Stumpanatra

Wow, sorry to hear that.

07-17-2014 08:40:01
NikkiSanDiego

Yes. A good cheery heart is far better, yeah?

07-17-2014 08:40:01
David Bailey

thx

07-17-2014 08:40:45
NikkiSanDiego

Oh, that was heartbreaking.

07-17-2014 08:40:48
David Bailey

fun part is that at 60 years old I go to my old pediatric cardiologist
50 yo

07-17-2014 08:41:19
NikkiSanDiego

You look very young, DB

07-17-2014 08:41:26
David Bailey

it is always funny when I walk back thru the waiting room to see the look on faces

07-17-2014 08:41:42
NikkiSanDiego

Haha.

07-17-2014 08:42:00
David Bailey

so sad
Something has to be done to help her
You may now listen live at http://www.iheart.com/live/Extreme-Talk-6302/

07-17-2014 08:42:35
Frank Stumpanatra

Oh sure, it’s getting to the point where folks tend to be younger when you go see them.

07-17-2014 08:43:31
David Bailey

sad case tricia

07-17-2014 08:45:10
NikkiSanDiego

Hello Kelly

07-17-2014 08:45:11
David Bailey

Welcome Kelly

07-17-2014 08:45:19
Frank Stumpanatra

Hi Kelly

07-17-2014 08:45:20
Kelly Milford Watson

hello!

07-17-2014 08:45:36
TransAmnesia

Heya 😀

07-17-2014 08:45:55
David Bailey

You may now listen live at http://www.iheart.com/live/Extreme-Talk-6302/

07-17-2014 08:46:32
Kelly Milford Watson

this is a horrible story coming up! a story of how the dss system failed miserably and the consequences of their actions, or rather lack of actions

07-17-2014 08:47:06
David Bailey

Why cannot the law find the gparents if they are still alive, or hang the adop parents if they are not

07-17-2014 08:47:25
Kelly Milford Watson

not enuf evidence against adoptive is my understanding

07-17-2014 08:47:46
NikkiSanDiego

Are there more of these stories today or is it my imagination… maybe instant news a la Internet makes it seem as if there are more nasty people around & about?

07-17-2014 08:48:05
Kelly Milford Watson

it has been established there is no nan. and casey & sandy cannot produce an addy, phone number, etc…no form of communication

07-17-2014 08:48:16
David Bailey

this nightmare began in 2011 i think

07-17-2014 08:48:47
Kelly Milford Watson

yes. but erica was abused at a much earlier time. the aunt contacted dss a couple times & they did nothing to help the child

07-17-2014 08:49:02
Frank Stumpanatra

I think we just hear about them today more often, Nikki.

07-17-2014 08:49:02
David Bailey

horrible

07-17-2014 08:49:02
NikkiSanDiego

I’ll have to read up… I haven’t heard this story before

07-17-2014 08:49:49
TransAmnesia

me either ..

07-17-2014 08:49:56
Kelly Milford Watson

this may be inaccurate but i was told today that rowan county dss has had 3 deaths under their watch in 1 yr

07-17-2014 08:50:00
NikkiSanDiego

I was wondering if the prevalence of drugs made abuse happen more, Frank

07-17-2014 08:50:14
Kelly Milford Watson

google….erica parsons & your web browser should lite up

07-17-2014 08:50:38
TransAmnesia

not sure about USA but in Aust we have reduced staff for child protection services with devastating results ..

07-17-2014 08:50:39
David Bailey

pictures of erica https://www.google.com/search?q=erica+parsons+photo&rls=com.microsoft:en-US:IE-Address&rlz=1I7SAVT_enUS545&tbm=isch&tbo=u&source=univ&sa=X&ei=Q2_IU–pE9OOyASk2oG4Aw&ved=0CBwQsAQ&biw=1366&bih=638
You may now listen live at http://www.iheart.com/live/Extreme-Talk-6302/

07-17-2014 08:51:23
NikkiSanDiego

I hear a lot about case overload in the states, too, Trans

07-17-2014 08:51:29
TransAmnesia

yep

07-17-2014 08:51:31
NikkiSanDiego

TY David

07-17-2014 08:51:39
David Bailey

yw

07-17-2014 08:51:50
Tricia Arrington Griffith

Hey

07-17-2014 08:51:55
David Bailey

hi

07-17-2014 08:52:15
Kelly Milford Watson

casey strung carolyn along for some time, letting her believe she was going to see erica soon. but at that point she was already missing.

07-17-2014 08:52:36
David Bailey

pure bs
not you kelly lol

07-17-2014 08:53:13
Kelly Milford Watson

yes! at one point casey stated erica was taking drivers ed but erica was only 14. she strung carolyn along with lie after lie
lol i knew what u meant

07-17-2014 08:53:53
NikkiSanDiego

Casey’s Erica’ mum?

07-17-2014 08:54:42
David Bailey

grr

07-17-2014 08:55:16
Kelly Milford Watson

carolyn parsons is the bio-mom. she allowed her bro-in-law sandy and his wife casey to adopt her

07-17-2014 08:55:48
NikkiSanDiego

I see, ty Kelly. I’ll read later, so I don’t bombard you w/q’s

07-17-2014 08:56:08
Kelly Milford Watson

plz read. amazing story

07-17-2014 08:56:28
NikkiSanDiego

I will kelly

07-17-2014 08:57:18
Kelly Milford Watson

omg "a candy rose" has been a God-send!!!!! so happy to hear the voice
table saw!!!

07-17-2014 09:00:16
David Bailey

that was a great segment

07-17-2014 09:00:18
NikkiSanDiego

G’night everyone. Nice to see you all. See you next week. Thank you for the show.

07-17-2014 09:00:23
David Bailey

gnite

07-17-2014 09:00:28
Frank Stumpanatra

Goodbye folks

07-17-2014 09:00:41
David Bailey

see ya next week

07-17-2014 09:00:42
NikkiSanDiego

🙂

07-17-2014 09:00:56
Kelly Milford Watson

http://www.acandyrose.com/erica_parsons_timeline.htm

07-17-2014 09:01:04
TransAmnesia

Night guys xoxoxoxox

07-17-2014 09:01:21
David Bailey

ty kelly

07-17-2014 09:03:39
Tricia Arrington Griffith

hey all. thanks for coming. Sleuth, Dave, THANK YOU.

07-17-2014 09:04:05
David Bailey

🙂
shuttin her down

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